Decoding Dating Dilemmas: Create Your Personal Love Map and Dating Plan

Decode your dating dilemmas and create your personal Love Map and Dating Plan to eliminate self-doubt and date with clarity to find the right person and stop settling for right now.

I help women-identifying singles reframe the dating game. They keep matching with emotionally unavailable people who just want attention and make minimal effort. They are afraid to hold out for better because they don’t want to be alone anymore and are just not sure what they’re looking for or how to find it. Frustrated, exhausted, and discouraged, they just want to feel wanted, respected, secure, and worthy of lasting love.

Who Am I

Interdisciplinary thinker, intersectional feminist, and LGBTQIA+ justice accomplice who is learning anti-racism. A word slinger, lapsed folk singer, recovering lawyer, almost therapist and astrologer, and meaning sleuth, I’m part analytical researcher and part intuitive creative. And I have mad sweet and spicy tooths. In my spare time, I love putting my own spin on bold, spicy, eclectic dishes and decadent desserts, touting the health benefits of chocolate (we all know it’s a vegetable, right?), and taking photos out in nature and of Miss Honey, my mom’s grumpy-faced, wavy-furred, and very affectionate Selkirk Rex cat.

I’m on a mission to crack the code of human nature and help people date and relate smarter in these post-digital times. Using curiosity and compassion as my guideposts, I think it all boils down to feeling like we matter to others and creating shared meaning. Two of my mottos:

1) there’s no such thing as a low maintenance person; and

2) as Joe Foderaro, LCSW said, the question is not, what’s wrong with you? it is, what happened to you?

Sara-Ann Rosen holds a Master of Arts degree in Human Development Counseling (Marriage, Couple, and Family Track) from the University of Illinois, a Juris Doctor degree from New York Law School, completed the Mindfulness-Based Cognitive Therapy Program from the University of Massachusetts, and is pursuing certification in Functional Imagery Training from the University of Plymouth, UK.

ho It Is For?

  • Women-identifying singles who are doing the work to heal from past heartbreaks and unhealthy relationship patterns to find a fulfilling, committed relationship.

  • Who want to find their person but feel like modern dating has become one big bait-and-switch operation.

  • Who feel like they’ve tried everything out there to help them find their person, but feel like they keep settling for less.

  • Who are open to learning and implementing new ideas and techniques.

ho It Is Not For?

  • Adults under 30 and/or those seeking only casual and/or non-monogamous relationships.

  • Adults who believe that love should be effortless and free of conflict when you find the right person.

  • Adults who think they are entitled to someone who will conform to their standards and expectations, but they shouldn’t have to learn or change anything about themselves, their attitudes and habits, their lifestyle, etc. to be in a relationship.

  • Adults who expect partners to make the effort and give in ways they won’t, who commodify and treat relationships transactionally. Also, those who think it’s more a matter of paying the right coach or matchmaker to get access to the “right” matches they’re entitled to.

MODULE ONE

Reveal Your Story, Refill Your Loving Cup

OUTCOME

  • Finally, understand your subconscious love stories.

  • Explore your relationship patterns.

  • Clarify, connect with, and act from your future self’s love vision.

DESCRIPTION

Repeating the same mistakes over and over is something that many of us do. In this module, you, will turn the problem of repeating limiting love stories into a passion project using simple tools that help you feel, see, and believe the new, empowered love story you will achieve.

MODULE TWO

Make Joy, Find Love

OUTCOME

  • Understand the power of knowing what you want.

  • Uncover where you are right now.

  • Visualize where you want to go, so you can make a plan to get there.

DESCRIPTION

Getting clear on what we want is the first step in getting it. In this module, you will discover the biggest secret of happy relationships and master the simple hacks to make it happen!

MODULE THREE

Love By Design, Not Default: Map Out Your Lovecourse and Treasure Points

OUTCOME

  • Explore the difference between want and need.

  • Finally, understand what to look for - and what to look out for - in potential matches/partners.

  • Create your unique Love Map - a visual representation of the path to your ideal partner and relationship and a system to keep you on the right track in dating.

DESCRIPTION

The dating game can be a tricky thing to master. In this module, you will learn what you need in a relationship - not just what you want from a date - and create your own Love Map based on your personal compatibility treasure points for a system to keep you on the right track.

MODULE FOUR

Go Out There And Live Your Own Love Story

OUTCOME

  • Understand your role in selecting the right matches and dates for you.

  • Master being and bringing in the love you want to share in a relationship.

  • Learn how to quickly rule matches in or out with certainty.

DESCRIPTION

Making a decision to let a potential date go can be a daunting situation. In this module, you will no longer be overwhelmed by dating app stress or disappointment fatigue, follow your Love Map to effortlessly rule matches in or out and start settling up in life and love!

MODULE FIVE

Energy Management

OUTCOME

  • Gain clarity on how you distribute your energy throughout the day.

  • Identify your draining and charging activities. 

  • Craft a plan to improve your energy level and bonding opportunities by 1.5x.

DESCRIPTION

Batteries need charging regularly, and so do we, however, many of us wait until we are completely depleted and just fall into bed. In this module, we will explore how you can use your energy in the most effective way possible to provide the necessary attention in all areas of your life, including with your child.

MODULE SIX

Effective Parenting

OUTCOME

  • Understand the value of games in developing a strong bond with your child.

  • Discover some fun developmental tools to use with your child.

  • Embrace this new way of communicating with your child.

DESCRIPTION

Finding ways to bond with our children that are fun, engaging, and effective, can be a challenge. In this module, we will put more tools into your toolkit to help you grow your relationship with your child.

MODULE SEVEN

Sustainable Growth with your child

OUTCOME

  • Gain clarity on how to continue this journey.

  • Craft a plan that works for you and how you see your parenting journey shifting.

  • Establish a supporting system for your ongoing evolution

DESCRIPTION

This program is not the end. The journey doesn’t stop here. This is a launch pad. 

In this module, we will ensure you have all the additional tools you need to continue the amazing progress you have made and take your relationship with your child to new heights.

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